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December 2004

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December 12

I've been trying all month to keep my chin up, with regards to Christmas coming. And I'd been doing pretty well with that effort until sometime late Saturday afternoon, when the chin props fell out and I found myself in tears.

I had started crocheting this year's Christmas snowflake. I was enormously pleased when the snowflake really took shape---when it hit the point that I knew what it would look like when it was finished. This year, it sort of told me what it wanted to look like---I was thinking pointy and spiky, but it turned out otherwise. And that was good and I was pleased.

But something about finishing the design elements, and talking about that with a friend, started loosening the chin props. And darkness came. Then the sadness came, and brought with it a flash of anger and some tears.

The sadness that I really don't have good words for, except to call it Christmas. The anger that was mainly grief. And the tears that both magnified then washed a lot of the preceding away.

In the midst of them came the realization that there was something good in this. I recognized within those minutes what was going on with me, and knew that I could reinstall the props, at least up to a point. They may have lost some of their height in the process, and they are rather fragile.

But they're working, so far.


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